WETparty Rules

Accepting The Rules

Everyone who applies for WETparty explicitly accepts these rules which are designed as much for the security and comfort of guests as they are for those holding the events.

Privacy

Privacy and security are our priorities. Peace of mind is a vital ingredient of an uninhibited evening and we try hard to protect our events from unwanted intrusion. The locations of our events and the other arrangements are strictly private to WETparty and our invited guests. You must not divulge them to third parties as this may compromise the privacy of all concerned.

Photography

Taking photos of another guest without their consent is prohibited. There may be some areas at the event where photography is prohibited altogether.

Arrive Together

We do not let single men into our events. Period. Even if you have paid, if your partner is not with you then your invitation is void. We never bend this rule.

No Transfer of Invitation

Invitations to our parties are personal and non-transferable. No one whose details and photo have not been submitted in advance will be admitted. If you turn up with a different partner your invitation is void.

Don't Bring Univited Guests

Only couples we have invited will be admitted. Others will be turned away however strongly they may be recommended to us. We issue invitations to as many couples as the venue can comfortably accommodate. If you want your friends to come, they must apply in the normal way.

Real Couples

We insist that the couples at our parties are 'real' couples - you must have a genuine sexual relationship, although it doesn't have to be an exclusive one (obviously!). Friends who team up just to find out "what it's like" are not acceptable. This is not the time or place for a single man to bring a woman on a first date.

Arrive on Time

All guests must arrive no later than two hours after the event starts to ensure entrance to the party. Our staff are volunteers and they don't want to stand on door duty all night. Under special circumstances arrangements can be made to admit couples late if we are notified in advance.

Dress Code

We don't have a strict dress code. Don’t go buying an expensive new outfit on our account. Clubwear is great. Urban wear (ball caps, jerseys etc.) is prohibited, this isn't a rap video party. See our Frequently Asked Questions page for further information.

Don't Be a Pest

Social situations in swinging parties are subtle and fluid, so it is difficult to define pestering precisely. It certainly includes touching people if you have been rebuffed but it can also be less than that. Consent is the key to swinging and all couples should be sensitive to the reactions of others. If we feel or are told that you are pestering someone, you and your partner will be asked to leave.

Overall

All WETparty rules are reasonable. They represent a common sense way of enabling everyone to enjoy themselves. If we have to ask a couple to leave because they have broken these rules we will neither refund their contribution nor admit them to future events. Your membership will be revoked!